catch up...

wow! where has the time gone! well as you know, i suck at blogging. lol. right now i'm chillin in Iraq and will be home in about 3months. i'm so excited! i went home for R&R in March and had a great time. i decided to take a 5day trip to Hawaii at the spur of the moment. life is too short ya know? let me tell ya, it was absolute paradise!

i still plan on turning this blog into a search for love blog, but its kinda difficult to do that from here (especially since i don't date military men).

i did learn one lesson while i was home though. me & a guy friend of mine were kinda talking about dating each other when i got home. wedid end up going out, but we decided we were on 2 different paths and friends we will stay. the only thing i regret is that i figured we would hang out the whole time i was home for R&R. i didn't have a back up in place so when things didn't work out between us, i tried to set up last minute dates with other dudes. unfortunately, it was too last minute and i was due to fly back in a couple of days.

when i get back home for good, i'm going to do the multiple dating thing. i think sometimes we as women put all our eggs in one basket, and then end up disappointed in the end. multiple dating would allow us to not get too attached to a guy. the more i think about it, the more i like the idea! i remember a friend telling me that "a man don't want someone that noone else wants". They told me to think about that bugaboo that always calls you even when u never call them and ignore their phone calls. the more you ignore them...the more they call. i had to admit, she had a point there.

anyhoo, thats all i got right now. hopefully time flies and i'll be back in GA b4 ya know it. I'm going to leave off with a pic of me in Honolulu, HI. I hope to visit there again soon. ALOHA!

be blessed.